1 : Can you describe your experience in the sex work industry and the skills you have developed?

My experience in the industry has been really diverse, I have been a FSSW, a pro-submissive and an apprentice mistress. It’s never boring, and no two days are the same. In this role, I have developed my communication skills, my interpersonal skills, and my health knowledge.

2 : How do you prioritize self-care and well-being while working in a demanding and potentially stressful job?

I have fun but keep clear boundaries, this is protective for me and my clients, they know discretion is assured, and feel safe with me, as they know what happens in the room stays in the room. Boundaries also stop work from taking over other areas of my life, which means when I am there I am fresh and focused, and you get 100% of my attention.

3 : What measures do you take to ensure your physical and emotional safety in your work as a sex worker?

Again, boundaries are really important; this protects my mental health. I am very lucky to have fantastic management who I know have my back if I need support or just need to debrief. I also have taken SW-specific self-defence training, which helps me feel more confident.

4 : What motivated you to pursue a career in sex work, and what do you find most fulfilling about it?

In my day job, I care for people and work to help them live their best lives. This is the same in SW, and I get such joy in helping people explore new aspects of themselves.

5 : What support systems do you have in place?

My managment and I have amazing co-workers. Too many to name, but Kiki and Raven in particular have been a rock for me.

6 : What advice would you give to someone considering entering this field?

Start in a brothel, even if you want to go private, learning skills in a safe space is a game changer. You will learn so much if you sit in the back room and just listen. Also, know that this is not a “get rich quick” industry. It’s hard work. Don’t believe that because of the 1% you see on TikTok, it will be like that for you. most of the industry is not like that.

7 : How long have you been in the industry?

Just over a year.

8 : What do you love about your job?

I love that every day is different and that I get to help people explore new aspects of themselves.

9 : Is there anything you wish you knew before entering the industry?

You will meet people who stay with you; I have clients that I often think of and wonder how they are doing.

10 : What's been your most favourite booking to date?

In the interests of discretion, I can’t answer that.